Be Wise with Foolish People!

Proverbs 26

Good morning! This is Pastor Jerry Ingalls from New Castle First Baptist Church and today is Tuesday, November 7.

Have you ever been in a situation where you had no idea how to respond to a person who was acting like a fool; nevertheless, whether you should even acknowledge that they said something foolish? I’ve been in this situation in one-on-one conversations and in group settings, small and large. Clearly, Solomon has too, as Proverbs 26:4-5 instructs us how to handle people in such difficult situations, “Do not answer a fool according to his folly, or you will also be like him. Answer a fool as his folly deserves, that he not be wise in his own eyes.” Solomon is not contradicting himself in these back-to-back proverbs; rather, he is teaching us situational awareness.

There are times to engage the person with truth, and there are times to ignore him or smooth it over, but there is never a time to be mean about it, even if the person has been casually cruel in his foolishness. In Matthew 5:21-22, Jesus gives clear instruction not to call anyone a fool:

You have heard that the ancients were told, “You shall not commit murder” and “Whoever commits murder shall be liable to the court.” But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother shall be guilty before the court; and whoever says to his brother, “You good-for-nothing,” shall be guilty before the supreme court; and whoever says, “You fool,” shall be guilty enough to go into the fiery hell.

While conflict is a necessary reality with certain people or situations, character assassination is never acceptable. When a person is acting a fool, be graceful with how you talk about the person, even when you must confront him about his conduct. Check your own heart so that you don’t act like the fool yourself.

Seize the moment and apply the wisdom of Proverbs 26: be wise with foolish people!

God bless you!

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